The unexpected passing of my brother Edward has been a seismic shock and a major life event, prompting me to reflect not only on the fact that life is too short but also how greater balance in life is achieved. In a world where modern-day pressures often lean us towards monetary success, I want to share why a focus on life experiences, memories and relationships instead should be our priority.
My brother Ed was an intelligent, articulate and politically astute figure with an effervescent personality. We disagreed on pretty much everything, but I loved our conversations and I always looked up to and admired him for his acumen. He often reminded me of the differences between mine and his academic trajectory, with him having attended Oxford to study English and me having trained as an estate agent. I often wondered why it was me who had the radio show and wrote these columns instead of him.
These early morning reflections encourage me to contemplate my approach to life, with regards to my understanding of happiness and purpose. With only 24 hours in a day, I’m finally recognizing the value of time and how having a ‘poor person’s problems’ can often mean seeking out ways to maximize life, rather than merely seek financial security.
One thing that Edward’s life and death taught me is that you can’t buy time, and the importance of not taking life for granted. His passing has made me reflect on how I prioritize my time and how I can become more effective with the same. I’m also more aware of how I can make better use of what I have. Whether it be my money, energy, or attention, I can be more mindful of how I choose to invest it.
Royal Albert Hall is also a part of my life and Edward’s legacy. The Hall is a grade I listed building and an iconic cultural icon. It is the home of classical music, jazz, rock, and pop ranging from the biggest stars in music to the best in drama, dance, opera, and film. As a trustee and Vice President of this historic institution, I’m reminded of my responsibility to help preserve the legacy of my brother Edward by dedicating my efforts to the Hall.
Edward’s life and death has meant much more to me than just a reminder of the importance of time and balance. He was a man who created wonderful memories and inspiration, and I’m reminded to be conscious of how I spend my time and with whom. His words have encouraged me to focus less on what I have and more on what I do, and to make sure I put my plans and aspirations into action.
Helping me to reflect deeply on my own life, I am humbled by Edward’s story. I’m thankful for his vast knowledge and I will never forget the good times he brought us growing up. His passing has only made me realize further how valuable life is and how we must make the most of it.
